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Wednesday, July 20, 2011

A letter and video to Michael's children

July 19, 2011

To my Grandchildren,

Some day you will read this and hopefully I will still be alive to read it to you.  As I am writing this, you are several years away from being born and being old enough to hear about our trip.  I am writing this to you to let you know that when your dad turned 11 years old, we took the most amazing trip and got to spend seven weeks together traveling the country and into Canada to see a baseball game in all of the major league baseball parks.  

We had the time of our lives.  We had no cares or worries.  We saw the whole country.  We left Arizona on May 21st and drove to San Diego.  We went to Disneyland.  We drove up the Pacific Coast Highway and saw some of the most beautiful sights along the Pacific Ocean.  We stood on the Golden Gate Bridge in San Francisco where other friends of mine joined us for a Giants game.  Your dad caught a ball at a Mariners game in Seattle with my college roommate.  We drove through the Rocky Mountains. I let him drive for the first time in our car around an empty parking lot at Coors Field in Denver. We learned about the Negro Leagues in Kansas City with my close friends. Grandma Helen and Aunt Andie joined us in Chicago for a week where we saw my home town and the neighborhood where I grew up.  We drove from Chicago to Milwaukee for a 7pm game, drove back to Chicago that night, and then got up the next morning to drive to Cincinnati on your dad's birthday so we could see a 12:30pm game later that morning.  Your dad met his uncle and family in Detroit and your dad and I sang "My Girl" in the original Motown studios.  We saw what became our favorite ballpark in Pittsburgh.  We went to Canada and saw Niagara Falls up close in a boat from 100 feet away.  We drove to the Baseball Hall of Fame in Cooperstown and learned more about the history of baseball.  We played catch at the hotel there.  We spent Fathers Day at Fenway Park in Boston where I taught him how to keep score.  We saw New York City where your grandma and aunt Andie joined us as we took the subway to Yankee Stadium, we spent a day in Central Park and then they came with us to Philadelphia where we ran up the Art Museum stairs just like Rocky did, and then on to Washington DC where we saw the President's children play on the White House lawn and your dad pitch in a major league ballpark bullpen.  We saw family and friends in Atlanta, we drove to Florida and met with your dad's friend Chris where they fed alligators after playing goofy golf.  We had a great time in New Orleans on the Fourth of July where your dad got to eat his favorite beignets, and we finished our trip in Texas 11,000 miles later where I threw your dad a touchdown pass on the field at Cowboys Stadium.  And we ended our seven week trip back in Phoenix where we got to see all those players we saw on the road play in the All-Star Game.  We bought a team hat and team ball from each park we visited as a souvenir so that we could have something to remember the trip by.  We wrote to our blog diary every night after seeing a game and we ranked the ballparks after each visit.  We took tons of pictures and videos so you could see them on whatever piece of technology that exists when you read this and see what your father looked like when he was 11 and what I looked like as a young man of 44.

We visited family and stayed with some of my friends along the way.  We watched Ken Burns' documentary on Baseball.  We watched the best baseball movies ever made: Field of Dreams, Bull Durham, Fever Pitch, and The Rookie.  You should have seen how much your dad laughed when he saw the Bad News Bears for the first time and how much he thought Tanner Boyle was so funny. I taught him about the history of baseball and how I thought that Jackie Robinson may have been as important to the civil rights movement as Martin Luther King was.  He learned about Babe Ruth, Joe DiMaggio, and Ted Williams.  I introduced him to The Three Stooges and Who's on First?  I shared my philosophy on life to him on many subjects including girls.

We ate lots of fast food and put on a few pounds more than we wanted.  We stayed up late in hotels and got up early the next day.  We met some great people along the way who sat next to us at ballgames and told them of the story of our trip.  We got interviewed by some reporters, and the story of our trip made the Seattle Times and the front page of our hometown newspaper.

We did all of that and so much more.  Mostly, we smiled for seven straight weeks and we became as close as we ever had been before.  It was all because we both loved baseball and in going to the games, we talked, we laughed, and we compared players to each other and your dad asked what it was like going to games with my father when I was a kid.  And seeing the games and the ballparks on our trip allowed us to share memories that will never be forgotten and that we will always have between us.  I hope that you will pass on the game of baseball to your children and that it brings you closer to your sons or daughters as it did for me and your father and for me and my father as well.

Here is a video that I created especially for you so that when you watch it you can see how much fun we had and to know how much I love your father. 



With all my love,

Your Grandfather Lance

Thank You to Everyone Who Made Our Trip Possible!

Michael and I are so grateful and blessed that we had the chance to go on our baseball adventure.  We are grateful that so many people could join us along the way, offer up tickets to games, their homes for us to stay in, and of course, support at home.  In chronological order, we offer up tremendous and heartfelt thanks to the following people:

  • Andy Rivera - my great brother-in-law and Michael's uncle who hooked us up with some spectacular seats at Petco Park in San Diego and to his co-worker, Jim Gunther for getting us great seats in Camden Yards in Baltimore;
  • Craig Woodhouse and his wife Erika - thank you for meeting us for breakfast in San Diego on our way to L.A.
  • Sanjit Das - my good friend and law school classmate who joined us in Anaheim to see the Angels game and gave us two passes to enjoy the rest of the day at Disneyland;
  • Helen's Uncle Benny and Aunt Bertha for letting us stay overnight with you while we were in Los Angeles and for cooking for us while we were there;
  • Randy Duran and Mike Thalblum for giving us spectacular tour of the Oakland Coliseum and making Michael's day by hooking him up with some great baseball memorabilia and to the tour guides at Dodger Stadium, Coors Field, Wrigley Field, Fenway Park, Nationals Park, Minute Maid Park, and the guy in the team shop at Progressive Field in Cleveland who let us in the park to take pictures - thank you for showing us a great time at your parks;
  • My partner in crime and greatest of friends Roger Garcia and his daughters as well as my good friend from my undergrad days at ASU, Mike Cueto and his girlfriend for hanging out with us and joining us at AT&T Park in San Francisco for the Giants game;
  • My other partner in crime, Nick Nicholes for offering up his home to us for the three days we were in Seattle, for the cool Mariners hat and Michael Pineda shirt that you got Michael that he was crazy about, and of course for joining us at Safeco Field for the Mariners game.  We think the world of you.
  • Bud Withers of the Seattle Times for thinking enough of our trip to write a nice story in the paper about our adventure.  I enjoyed speaking with you and thanks again!
  • My friend Brett Ingram, his wife Stacy, and his two daughters for meeting us for dinner and a great evening out while we were in Denver;
  • My long-time and very close friends Dallas and Lisa Eubanks and their daughter Hannah for letting us stay with them in Kansas City.  You should know Dallas that you made a huge impression on Michael with your gift to him and joining us for the Royals game at Kauffman Stadium.  Lisa, thanks for helping with our laundry and for making us the chocolate chip cookies!  And Hannah, Michael had a great time with you - and don't forget - you need to become a Sun Devil!
  • My great friends and neighbors in Chicago, Helen, Michelle, and Phyllis Dantzler.  It was great seeing you all again.  The food you made for us was great and know the memories of me growing up in my South-Side neighborhood will never go away;
  • My best friend who is like a brother to me Pete Rodriguez and his son Pete, Jr. for joining our family in Chicago to see the White Sox.  It only seemed appropriate that you were there with us to see the only baseball team that matters in Chicago!  Add this to the thousand other crazy things we've done together.  Also, thanks to Pete's wife Nadine for calling her friend who runs the scoreboard at Comiskey Park in Chicago to get Michael's name up on the scoreboard.
  • My former law partner Eric Wittenberg and his wife Susan.  Thanks for making the trek from Columbus to join us and sweating it out in Cincinnati for the Reds game and for dinner afterwards with Helen and Andie to celebrate Michael's birthday;
  • My brother Ricky Venable and his wife Ernestine for letting us stay with them in Detroit for the three days we were there, for showing us around Detroit, and for being there with us at Comerica Park for the Tigers game.  It was great seeing you both again and it was really good to catch up with my brother after 20 years. Michael really enjoyed meeting his uncle for the first time;
  • My cousins Reggie, Theresa, and Roger.  Thank you so much for driving down to meet us for lunch in Detroit.  Our visit was short, but we made up a lot of time and it was so great seeing you after all of these years;
  • Doug Tammaro - the SID at ASU and fan of all things Pittsburgh.  Thanks for all of your support for the trip and passing the story on to others, including the ASU alums in Pittsburgh.  Remember, if the Pirates win the World Series this year, it's all because Michael and I visited PNC Park and picked it as our #1 park!  I look forward to seeing you soon.
  • My great clients Mike Rhodes and Jeff Scher from Bodek & Rhodes.  Thank you guys so much for offering up your spectacular company seats to the Phillies game.  We truly appreciate the generosity and my son really liked Citizens Bank Park;
  • My niece Kathleen Outlaw, her mother Pearl, grandmother Pearl, and Michael's cousin Turner.  Thank you all for giving us your home, driving us around, and making us feel at home in Atlanta. Michael had a great time, as always, with Turner, and it was great spending time with you Kathleen, as always.
  • My great friend Matt McCarthy, his wife Karen, and their son Michael.  Thank you for having us over for dinner in Atlanta, and of course Matt for joining us at Turner Field for the Braves game.  Matt, it's always fun hanging out with you!;
  • Steve Heinrichs and his son Tyler.  Steve, after all of these years of knowing you only through our fantasy football leagues, it was very cool to finally meet you and your son in person.  Thank you so much for getting those outstanding seats to the Braves game and shuttling us to the game.  We had a blast!;
  • Ivan and Patsy Castillo for letting their son, one of Michael's best friend from school, Chris, fly to Tampa to join us for the rest of the trip.  Chris is a great young man and Michael was so happy to have him along for the long rides;
  • Mark Crudup of the Wrangler News in Chandler, AZ.  Thank you so much for writing such a nice article on the trip and making it front page news!  Thanks for thinking enough of us to do what you did.
  • To my partners and staff at work - Mike Campillo, David Logan, Joe Meaney, Carey Anthony, John Mascari, Peggy Privett, and Amiee Paprocki - thank you guys for holding the fort down and covering for me so that I could take the 7 weeks off to do the trip with Michael.  I'm very grateful having such great people to work with.
  • To Michael's grandparents - Bill and Chonita Rivera.  Michael thanks you for his birthday present that you gave him that he used wisely on his trip;
  • To my beautiful mother Yvonne - thank you for Michael's birthday present and for supporting us in all that we did on the trip including calling to check in on us.  I owe it all to you!  And to my dad Jack who watched over us the whole way on the trip from up above - I wished you could have been along for the ride with us;
  • To anyone that supported us on Facebook or Twitter - especially my law school classmate Miche Rutledge and my friend Laura Garcia (who I know the two of you read and commented on every single blog post), and every person who we sat next to during our games or our tours who chatted with us about our trip and took our picture during the game, and to anyone who has read the blog - thank you so much for supporting us along the way.
  • And finally, to the beautiful ladies in our lives, my daughter Andie and my wife Helen.  Thank you for allowing us to do this trip.  We know how hard it must have been to be without us for all of those weeks (well maybe not) having to do everything at home by yourselves and without any help.  You will have your turn one day soon to do something like this.  Without your support and encouragement, there's no way we could have ever done something like this.  We love you both so much.
Well there you have it.  If we've left anyone out, please let us know and we will be sure to add you.  

Lance and Michael